tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post8401364374669930078..comments2024-02-19T05:16:19.517-05:00Comments on So Dear and Yet So Far: Okay, So I LiedSuehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812637630030228124noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-53443546823129914942008-06-15T01:12:00.000-04:002008-06-15T01:12:00.000-04:00Be easier on yourself, STE.Just worry about today....Be easier on yourself, STE.<BR/>Just worry about today. Tomorrow is too big of a chunk, let alone next week or next month. The roller coaster we are on is too violent and unpredictable.Ya Chunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08816837461370619194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-19786743378179090172008-06-12T22:06:00.000-04:002008-06-12T22:06:00.000-04:00I think the second-guessing about how others perce...I think the second-guessing about how others perceive our dealing with our own grief is one of the really rough things about this. The best you can do really is just worry about you. No one should expect you to do any more than that.<BR/><BR/>And you do know when you can't put it in the journal, you can put it right here, and that we'll read it proving you're not really alone, right?Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-69586835760470708062008-06-12T21:32:00.000-04:002008-06-12T21:32:00.000-04:00I think your feelings are normal. And I think your...I think your feelings are normal. And I think your friends and family who love you will understand when you are ready to stop pushing them away. I do it too. It's easier to sit in the cocoon of our grief by ourselves, than to actually have to talk about it with people who don't necessarily get it. But one day you will be ready...CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-24910994218355276512008-06-12T21:16:00.000-04:002008-06-12T21:16:00.000-04:00sorry missed your post last week. I can understan...sorry missed your post last week. I can understand every thing you're feeling. go easy on yourself. <BR/><BR/>as for trying again some day, know that you did nothing to cause what happened, it just happened. that may bring no comfort but it's nothing that could have been prevented. <BR/><BR/>and I push away those I love too. everyone but M. sad but true. it all sucks.lunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455301696832647867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-22634895233024310952008-06-12T20:56:00.000-04:002008-06-12T20:56:00.000-04:00Sweetheart, I'm not going anywhere. You're stuck w...Sweetheart, I'm not going anywhere. You're stuck with me for good.Cliff Evanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14601389977814866457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-44837123880046133442008-06-12T19:50:00.000-04:002008-06-12T19:50:00.000-04:00I do the same thing, push away and sometimes even ...I do the same thing, push away and sometimes even hurt those that care about me when I am hurting. <BR/><BR/>Do whatever you want with the blog hun, we will be here for you either way. Be easy on yourself though. <BR/>xo<BR/>gG$https://www.blogger.com/profile/05010373805685335151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-74207093349064606822008-06-12T18:50:00.000-04:002008-06-12T18:50:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry, STE. I wish I had something better t...I'm so sorry, STE. I wish I had something better to say, but it's the truth. I'm sorry.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-54350621427251453452008-06-12T18:24:00.000-04:002008-06-12T18:24:00.000-04:00I understand. I feel the same things. I get it. It...I understand. I feel the same things. I get it. It's ok. It will be ok. <BR/><BR/>And for what it's worth, I keep coming back to the blog.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.com