tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post711468766694809198..comments2024-02-19T05:16:19.517-05:00Comments on So Dear and Yet So Far: FehSuehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812637630030228124noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-73691714710023340122008-07-15T18:03:00.000-04:002008-07-15T18:03:00.000-04:00Happy Effin Birthday hun.Happy Effin Birthday hun.G$https://www.blogger.com/profile/05010373805685335151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-46223894409477560682008-07-15T17:19:00.000-04:002008-07-15T17:19:00.000-04:00Happy Birthday, STE. Just wanted to let you know I...Happy Birthday, STE. Just wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you. XO.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-549852497831750432008-07-15T14:45:00.000-04:002008-07-15T14:45:00.000-04:00Happy Birthday for today. I hope you get some tim...Happy Birthday for today. I hope you get some time to do some good stuff for you.Betty Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02106396238018550134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-67701884450703967442008-07-15T14:19:00.000-04:002008-07-15T14:19:00.000-04:00Happy Birthday. I hope it's another small step in ...Happy Birthday. I hope it's another small step in a good direction for you.<BR/><BR/>All the best.Martinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11044403947730363259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-62737004207603222752008-07-15T11:23:00.000-04:002008-07-15T11:23:00.000-04:00I really hope your birthday is ok and you manage, ...I really hope your birthday is ok and you manage, even for a short time, to think of yourself.<BR/><BR/>I think you are incredibly hard on yourself. You don't whine. It is a cliche but things to move on with time. My belief is that they get worse with time first before becoming part, instead of all, of you as a person. You getting there, be kinder to you.<BR/><BR/>I hope this next year brings you more peace.Carriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15454167446758199344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-57802429232895618872008-07-15T08:14:00.000-04:002008-07-15T08:14:00.000-04:00happy birthday. sending you strength and wishes fo...happy birthday. sending you strength and wishes for peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-26162685444612788692008-07-14T23:45:00.000-04:002008-07-14T23:45:00.000-04:00Happy early birthday!Happy early birthday!sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05816972200056579468noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-35783249731733770122008-07-14T22:19:00.000-04:002008-07-14T22:19:00.000-04:00Hmph. I say FEH too. So there.Say, this is proba...Hmph. I say FEH too. So there.<BR/><BR/>Say, this is probably most unhelpful, feel free to junk, but when I found myself at this exact whiny place I realized it was kinda time to put a fork in a <I>part</I> of my grief. Not my grief altogether, but I think I realized I was grieving a whole helluva lot more than my deadbaby. And at some point I started to whittle away at this list. I'm not quite down down to just her, but I'm trying my damnedest. So it could just be, if you look around, you might say: Feh, I don't really need to harp over THAT part anymore, I've beaten that horse.<BR/><BR/>Then again, like any good ex-grad student, I'm good at deconstruction like this.<BR/><BR/>I'm really sorry. And Happy Birthday. And please, eat some cake.Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-13305313231311700972008-07-14T21:22:00.000-04:002008-07-14T21:22:00.000-04:00There is a part of grief, and I'm in it, that is w...There is a part of grief, and I'm in it, that is what I call S2D2 - same sh.i.t, different day. <BR/><BR/>It sucks.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-49831063836127368822008-07-14T21:04:00.000-04:002008-07-14T21:04:00.000-04:00I think you just touched on everything I have been...I think you just touched on everything I have been feeling in the last week. I wished that every single holiday and special occasion since Quinn's birth and death hadn't happened - I didn't find joy in any of them, and even trying made me feel worse . . . like how dare I try to have a good time. I hope that there are at least a few good moments in your day tomorrow, and that the coming year brings you peace.<BR/><BR/>(And if you want to get those posts out of your drafts folder, please feel free to e-mail them to me - I am right there with in feeling whiny and annoying, and I understand.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-7088094692042813422008-07-14T19:14:00.000-04:002008-07-14T19:14:00.000-04:00I know it doesn't sound right but I'm gonna say it...I know it doesn't sound right but I'm gonna say it anyway...Happy Birthday. It's been a rough (understated there) year for you and I hope this next year brings you peace and some sort of happiness and hope. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow! Much love, AAmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00912286121374215944noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-69770210727928910052008-07-14T19:08:00.000-04:002008-07-14T19:08:00.000-04:00Here from L&F!Happy birthday. I hope you're feelin...Here from L&F!<BR/><BR/>Happy birthday. I hope you're feeling better today..((((hugs)))))Just Me.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12940399833566474215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-16415499647878587682008-07-14T16:29:00.000-04:002008-07-14T16:29:00.000-04:00I hope you have a good birthday tomorrow. Do somet...I hope you have a good birthday tomorrow. Do something nice for yourself. Eat too much and maybe drink too much. Give yourself a day off from being sad (a lot easier said than done!).CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-59397714485036934822008-07-14T16:22:00.000-04:002008-07-14T16:22:00.000-04:00wishing you a wonderful day, and a better year. I...wishing you a wonderful day, and a better year. I hope you can find the time to celebrate you, and to do whatever the hell you feel like it. and enJOY it. thinking of you.lunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455301696832647867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-29796665703433982662008-07-14T15:44:00.000-04:002008-07-14T15:44:00.000-04:00Happy birthday, sweet STE. It's been a shitty hard...Happy birthday, sweet STE. It's been a shitty hard year for you, and you know what? You have every right to feel beaten down.<BR/><BR/>Hope you get some cake and some peace.<BR/><BR/>Love you lots (we share a birthday, I HAVE to love you).Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.com