tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post670737351127777696..comments2024-02-19T05:16:19.517-05:00Comments on So Dear and Yet So Far: LacunaSuehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03812637630030228124noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-3391338042817263712009-01-07T07:38:00.000-05:002009-01-07T07:38:00.000-05:00My heart just breaks for you, for us. Remembering...My heart just breaks for you, for us. Remembering your boys, as always.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09211028670642739808noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-84891895037176619432009-01-06T18:05:00.000-05:002009-01-06T18:05:00.000-05:00My heart just breaks for you both - nightmare is t...My heart just breaks for you both - nightmare is the closest thing to describe your experience. I'm so very sorry.<BR/><BR/>And I agree whole-heartedly with your mantra. It can always, always be worse.<BR/><BR/>You and C are such a team - I'm so glad you have each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-64793014043936397182009-01-06T17:40:00.000-05:002009-01-06T17:40:00.000-05:00I'm at a loss for words.I admire your strength and...I'm at a loss for words.<BR/>I admire your strength and ability to relive it as you tell your story.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-44423609036911491142009-01-06T11:29:00.000-05:002009-01-06T11:29:00.000-05:00It just sounds so incredibly awful and sad. I'm so...It just sounds so incredibly awful and sad. I'm sorry, Sue and C. I mean there are no words profound enough, big enough to offer in response to the experience you describe here. So, I'll just say: I'm so sorry.<BR/><BR/>And, you are absolutely right. It can always be worse.<BR/><BR/>XO.c.https://www.blogger.com/profile/02933776400434137451noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-48384400364513473222009-01-06T01:35:00.000-05:002009-01-06T01:35:00.000-05:00absolutely a nightmare. I like what tash said abo...absolutely a nightmare. I like what tash said about the heartbreak and the horror -- so true. hopefully the reliving and retelling is cathartic. we are all here to help you unravel that heavy load, a year later. so very sorry you had to live through it. <BR/><BR/>you each know how lucky you are to have the other, so I"ll just say I'm glad about that too.lunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455301696832647867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-37194808670796788972009-01-06T01:06:00.000-05:002009-01-06T01:06:00.000-05:00What a terribly heartbreaking part. All of this is...What a terribly heartbreaking part. All of this is unfair, as any story of loss is, but some of it is horrific in its unique, this can't really be happening, can it?, way. I am so sorry it did. And though I am not one for literal belief in the afterlife adjudication, some days I want to be. This is one of them, so that the jackasses responsible for the part of the horror that is state rules can be held to account for the completely unnecessary portion of your suffering caused by their showmanship. I am so sorry. <BR/>And, like Tash, so glad you had/have (and continue to have) each other.Juliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09745262857388007041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-79001049710335189502009-01-05T10:54:00.000-05:002009-01-05T10:54:00.000-05:00It is so painful to read this, knowing that the pa...It is so painful to read this, knowing that the pain doesn't ease. I am so sorry you two had to experience this. I am glad you have each other, and hope that gives each of you some small comfort.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-73401392608068310392009-01-05T09:10:00.000-05:002009-01-05T09:10:00.000-05:00dear Sue and C., your words and your experience is...dear Sue and C., your words and your experience is so vivid for me. We lost our girls 4 weeks ago at 21 weeks. It is crazy how some moments in time are crystalized. Forever. <BR/><BR/>I think you are both amazing. In your strength, in your love. I know that's small comfort. But please know, there are people here that are reading and remembering your boys, and gathering strength from your love and courage. Thank you.mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-501450322186737112009-01-05T08:55:00.000-05:002009-01-05T08:55:00.000-05:00i know you know how terrible your story is. i'm a ...i know you know how terrible your story is. i'm a little stunned, though, to realize that i didn't really process how truly awful it is. i am so amazed, and touched, and grateful, that you have the strength to re-tell it. and so sorrowful that you have it to tell, at all.<BR/><BR/>much love to you all,<BR/>--c.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-86943233497153052792009-01-04T21:08:00.000-05:002009-01-04T21:08:00.000-05:00You two are tremendous parents, couple, and a team...You two are tremendous parents, couple, and a team. I hope you know that.<BR/><BR/>I know you're trying to talk us back from the ledge because of course things could be worse! this scenario could've played out while we were refugees in Darfur! but you really have *two* nightmares to unpack and unravel -- the heartbreaking one, and the one of horror movies. And untangling the sad part from the angry part has got to be difficult beyond measure.<BR/><BR/>Of course it could be worse. You don't know how relieved I am at the end of reading this to know that each of you had the other. You, and your boys, are in my thoughts tonight. I'm so sorry any and all of this happened.Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-87919386004067188552009-01-04T20:55:00.000-05:002009-01-04T20:55:00.000-05:00Words are not equipped to express a sorrow such as...Words are not equipped to express a sorrow such as this, they just aren't. And so I have nothing worthy to say.<BR/>Except that I can feel my heart breaking, more than it already has, for both of you and the boys.<BR/>xxook@laklyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05366772609212990882noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-12939973927086354632009-01-04T20:54:00.000-05:002009-01-04T20:54:00.000-05:00Oh Sue. Oh C. I am in tears reading this too. And ...Oh Sue. Oh C. I am in tears reading this too. And just so, so sorry.loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-35361816437204445282009-01-04T20:18:00.000-05:002009-01-04T20:18:00.000-05:00I wish I had something more palpable to say than I...I wish I had something more palpable to say than I'm sorry, and I'm holding your hand from afar.Aunt Beckyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12146687582842259611noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-89812670785118904462009-01-04T20:11:00.000-05:002009-01-04T20:11:00.000-05:00I'm sorry. I'm sorry that any of us have to be in ...I'm sorry. I'm sorry that any of us have to be in the awful place. <BR/><BR/>((((hugs))))Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398826425080805683.post-75020161432679741022009-01-04T19:34:00.000-05:002009-01-04T19:34:00.000-05:00I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry. It ha...I am in tears reading this. I am so sorry. It has the quality of a nightmare, even on the screen. I am so very sorry.Newthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16517611200405647990noreply@blogger.com